Friday, July 3, 2015

Classy Forth of July Outfit Inspiration

Blazer: ON SALE!// Dress Shirt // White Denim // Belt (sold out) similar here
Scarf (sold out) similar options: here, herehere and here // Bracelets
Shoe Options: here, here and here

I hope you're all excited for the long weekend festivities! What I love most about this holiday is that at this point summer is in full swing and there are so many fun options whether it's a backyard BBQ, a beach day or catching up with friends/family during a weekend away to celebrate this country's Independence. It's also a great excuse to looking cute wearing some red, white and blue!

I'm a huge fan of white denim for summer, it's so chic and pairs well with many tops to be dressed up or down. As a lover of blazers, I can tell you that a classic one in navy is so versatile adds such a polished look. This White House Black Market-inspired ensemble is the epitome of a classy July.4th outfit in my opinion. It may be a bit too dressy for a very casual bbq or family outing, in which case this navy tee along with a comfy red flat sandals OR strappy espadrille wedges would be the perfect complements to dress it down and still maintain the same color theme. In some cases, it can also be the ideal casual Friday look if your workplace allows that and I'm loving this red tassel necklace.

Living in Florida, it's not so practical for me anymore to wear pants during the daytime in July (I was used to 70-85 degree summer days in Toronto) and by May and June here the thermometer has already shot up well past 100 for weeks at a time, so denim and pants in general are not necessarily in my own future this weekend but are thankfully still an option in the evening. With so many of my readers living in other states that aren't quite so hot, I wanted to share as it's a great option. By changing out or eliminating the scarf and belt it can be worn over and over again with other great colors too such as a yellow or Kelly green tee or even a blush or hot blouse. It's a nod to nautical style, which will of course never go out of fashion.

If you follow along on Facebook then you saw me share 'the one + only hairstyle you'll need this 4th of July weekend'! It's a perfect fuss-free solution for beating the heat and still looking stylish. If you haven't seen it, you'll want to take a peek here as I linked to the step-by-step guide to re-create the look which can be worn with any outfit. Don't you just love it?

With my husband still in Texas for work, it's just us girls so we're going to head to our favorite park for a picnic and watch some fireworks locally in the evening. I'll definitely be doing a little online shopping later today while my babe naps as Ann Taylor is running a sale for an extra 50% OFF their already marked down sale styles through 07/04 with code: HAPPY50  and White House/ Black Market has a sale up to 70% OFF right now also. What are you up to this weekend? Wishing you all a safe & enjoyable holiday.

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Monday, June 22, 2015

Ann Taylor 50% Off Summer Sale Favorites

One of my favorite go-to shops for classy wardrobe essentials is having a 50% off sale until midnight tonight! Just use code: SHOP50 at checkout to get half off your purchase at Ann Taylor. I'm sharing my picks for dresses, skirts and a few accessories too with a focus on pieces that can be worn to the office during summer, a season which can sometimes bet tricky when it comes to the workplace. They offer beautiful office attire for a polished look, classic pieces that you'll wear for years to come.

You can scroll the side arrows to see the next item and can click on any image to be taken directly to the source for more details. Many of the items I'm sharing are available in regular and petite sizes and if you're tall like me, great news! Ann Taylor stocks tall sizes also. I especially love their white denim for summer and this embossed bucket bag is a perfect option for so many outfits for work or casual weekends.

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Monday, June 8, 2015

Manners Monday: How to Support a Cause With Tact and Grace

I hope you're all having a wonderful start to your week. For today's Manners Monday post, we're talking about a topic that I haven't touched on before: how to graciously go about supporting a cause with tact and grace. Oftentimes, we become so fired up about our favorite cause that it can be easy to go overboard and bombard someone with all of that passion! Just because we've adopted a newly energizing vegan diet or have taken a stance against disposable diapering or wearing fur, it doesn't mean that everyone around us shares our same viewpoint. I do believe that at the end of the day most people are just doing the best that they can in life to make the best decisions they know how to make with the resources afforded to them. Can we all do better? Of course we can. Education leads to change. We can all benefit from new information, facts and an open mind when it comes to worldly topics that affect us all in the greater scheme of things. What I see on social media when it comes to religion, politics, the debate of pro or anti-vaccination, genetically modified foods vs. organic (the list could go on here!), is that when one is behind the anonymity of their laptop or they are not required to be physically face-to-face with another person, words are typed, feelings get hurt and more often than not belittling takes place, brash words are spoken and a lot of people get heated up, alienating others along the way.

We all have our own opinions, values, convictions and causes which may sometimes differ greatly from others. However, it's important to remember that tearing another down because of a choice they've made which doesn't fall in line with our own lifestyle is just not becoming of  a lady.

As someone who holds many causes near and dear to her heart, I always ask myself how I'd like to be treated or how I'd like to receive information. At one point in time, we didn't know what we do today about the very causes we support. Everything in life involves a learning curve. I've been extremely aware of chemical ingredients only choosing natural and organic for many years, my cousin on the other hand admitted recently that she was oblivious to it all-cleaning products, makeup, sunscreen, food, etc., but thanks to a new business she is now a part of, her eyes have been opened. My point is, when we are gentle with people, allowing them the time to figure things out in their own timing and become more aware, they will. Just because we don't agree with someone's lifestyle and choices doesn't give us the right to belittle them, judge them or badger them as this is bullying bordering on harassment. It's not our job to fix or change anyone, all we can do is commit to our own personal growth. This isn't to say that we shouldn't bring up controversial topics in conversation but just tread lightly and be aware of someone's feelings as to not hurt or embarrass them in the process.

Sometimes we feel compelled to share information to help others because we care so much about them that we want it so badly for them to 'get it'. What I've found to be a non-threatening way of conveying information gently is to share from my own experiences. An example of this (that has come up a few times among friends and acquaintances) is sharing about how I noweat very little meat because I've learned that livestock is a major source of CO2 pollution and the animals are often treated poorly and live in unclean conditions. While I don't eliminate it completely, my alternative is organic, grass fed beef knowing the animals are treated in a much more kind and humane way and they are not consuming genetically modified ingredients and being pumped with hormones/antibiotics. When things are presented in a way in which people understand that they have alternatives and hear how you've changed your own ways and why, that makes it much more palatable. You may not convince them to adopt new ways immediately but the seed has been planted and after that it is up to them if it is of interest to them.

Another approach is to provide literature or website links that provide more information that someone can read at their own leisure. If you have a sample of a really great natural sweetener or a healthier product that tastes great, why not share it with a friend so they can enjoy it when they like. For me, what I mentioned above and  the reason for the way I eat has evolved over many years and was due to a booth I visited for 'Mercy for Animals' at a local Vegetarian Fest in one of our favorite local parks who are advocates for farmed animals. Holding their magazine and seeing heartbreaking images and speaking to the knowledgeable staff of the organization helped me to learn new things I didn't know before and let's face it, visuals can be powerful. This same magazine that shared gripping photos also provided great vegan and vegetarian recipes, I loved those positive options. I've always loves animals but since that time I felt a greater sense of compassion towards all creatures including farmed animals who are treated as a commodity.

When I was younger I would get pretty amped up about things I was passionate about, over time though I've learned how to soften and refine my approach knowing that kindness and grace wins every time.

Now, I'd love to hear from you! How do you share your causes with others gently to encourage change?

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Monday, June 1, 2015

Classy Woman Fashion Favorites for May

Every month I have so much fun putting together my favorite pieces for my Classy Woman Fashion Favorites posts. It's essentially a gigantic wish list for me filled with pieces I adore which range from sophisticated looks for a wedding, tasteful swimwear for the beach or poolside, comfortable yet stylish weekend wear, a few of my favorite beauty products that I am currently using and classic accessories that are on trend which I love and I know you will too.

For May, I'm all about pops of color, florals, delicate fabrics such as lace, ruffles and in case you couldn't tell-peplum! Lily and I both have several peplum tops, I think it adds so much more to a pair of shorts or jeans than just a plain tee and the layered look via a hem/ruffle is quite popular right now. I'm starting to put together the next post for June. In addition to fashion pieces, I've been working really hard on some room designs for my interior design clients and I look forward to sharing similar posts with my favorite home decor pieces along with the overall room inspirations.

You can shop this post by clicking on any of the images in the boutique above and you'll be taken straight to the source and as always, I'm sharing the best sales taking place right now so you can stretch your spring wardrobe budget. Hopefully you all got to sneak a peek at Nordstrom's Half-Yearly sale which was going on for 10 days and just ended yesterday!

  • ANN TAYLOR: Extra 30% off sale styles. I own this top from the sale.
  • BANANA REPUBLIC: 35% off your purchase.  Ends 06/02
  • J.CREW: 30% off tees, shorts & swim w/code: SUMMERSTYLE
  • LOFT: 40% off select summer styles
  • NORDSTROM: Designer Clearance up to 40% off select styles. 
  • SHOPBOP: Designer Sale + free 3-day shipping.
  • TORY BURCH: Save up to 40% off their new sale items

Which styles here get you excited for summer?

I hope you're having a great week so far. Thanks for stopping by!


Tuesday, May 26, 2015

5 Tips for Choosing the Perfect Engagement Ring

It's hard to believe that it's already been 9 years this May that my husband proposed while we were in Paris (you can read about our engagement story here). It was a beautiful day, such a memorable trip together and I have to say he did a fantastic job of designing a custom ring that he surprised me with based upon a photo he had seen of my dream ring months prior.

Having just attended a wedding this past weekend for a dear friend and learning of other loved ones who recently became engaged and of course moving into wedding season, I've been thinking about the excitement of this special time. If you're a traditional kind of woman, you probably prefer to have your husband-to-be shop for a ring on his own but if you're not, you may prefer to choose that exquisite piece of jewelry with him that will adorn your left ring finger for eternity. Either way, it's important to know what you want and like so you can provide some hints and/or suggestions to make the process easier for him.

Every woman is unique and it's important to consider a few more factors beyond budget and the 4 C's (color, cut, clarity and carat weight) when deciding upon the right ring for you. I'm a huge fan of customization, especially when it comes to the one piece of jewelry you will wear every single day for the rest of your life. A custom ring may sound like a really expensive option but it doesn't have to be. Instead of choosing a finished product, you control the exact size of center stone choosing it separately, overall band color and style as well as the intricate little design details that truly make it special and unlike any other. Your ring design should embody who you are as a woman.

I recently discovered Anjolee Jewelry and love the versatility they offer in creating custom one-of-a-kind pieces. Everything from bracelets, earrings and engagements rings to necklaces (like their riviera diamond necklace) which is awesome for creating custom gifts. They even have a mobile app to customize your favorite designs! Below I'm sharing some points to consider as one chooses the ring of their dreams along with some of my favorite classic styles too.

1. Know Your Style- A classy woman has developed her own sense of style, she knows what she likes and what she doesn't and isn't swayed by what's trending. If you are a lover of decades gone by, chances are a modern bezel set single stone ring in a plain polished band isn't going to cut it for you. You might prefer a vintage or antique style ring which is more intricate in nature. Likewise, if you prefer s more clean lined approach in your home's interior design and wardrobe, you would probably be most happy with a solitaire in an elevated prong setting. One of the best ways to determine your style is start a secret Pinterest folder or even a regular file folder filled with wedding magazine clippings of rings you most like.

Don't try to over think it, just keep anything that you gravitate towards. Later you can look through them and determine how they all relate and specifically what stands out the most to you-maybe it's an elevated setting, a solitaire surrounded by several smaller stones in a halo effect, perhaps it's the design on the band portion itself. Whatever it is that grabs you, focus on honing in on the exact look you most prefer.

2. Mind Your Metals- Just because rose gold or platinum is all the rage at a particular moment in time when you are becoming more serious in your relationship, or your best friend recently became engaged and is donning a yellow gold ring does not mean you must incorporate that into your engagement ring design. Focus on the long term, this is a piece of jewelry unlike a bracelet or necklace that you will not just wear on occasion, but daily, so it must be something that stands the test of time. Try different types of gold and metals on your hand to determine which best matches your skin tone. Some try to choose based on what they most wear (silver vs. gold), however mixed metals and a less matchy-matchy approach is how most wear jewelry these days so try not to let that weigh so heavily on your decision.

It goes without saying that if you never wear anything in a yellow gold tone, then it's probably best to go with something like white gold or platinum that has a more neutral appearance. If you opt for a silver, white gold or platinum, it actually tends to make the stone appear larger in the setting if the center stone is a diamond or clear stone, it just reflects more brilliantly than in a colored metal so this is a great option for a smaller budget to maximize the size of the stone.

3. Be Practical- Of course getting engaged is a romantic time that sweeps you off your feet but there is still an element of practicality that needs to be considered. When it comes to choosing a stone and setting, one important thing to consider is your profession and hobbies. Think about what you spend most of your time doing daily. If you're working with your hands as a teacher, care giver or are involved in a lot of sports (particularly high impact) and always want to be able to wear your ring, you may prefer to choose a setting that is lower or doesn't have a prong setting so that it does not catch on clothing, scratch skin, etc. A simple solitaire in a prong setting actually cleans up easily for those who love to garden, bake/cook in the kitchen or work in an art studio vs. one with a lot of tiny accent stones.

As much as I love my own ring, the elevation of the setting is one thing I hadn't considered. It's beautiful but I've accidentally scratched myself, my husband as well as my daughter and pulled loops on sweaters as well as caught it on other things because of how high it sits up and its princess cut shape. As a result, I find myself only wearing it when I leave the house, at home it sits in my jewelry box. For anyone who is a chef, works with small children, works around delicate clothing/fabrics, is a physical therapist, doctor or anyone examining people or objects, one suggestion is to test out a style by wearing fashion rings that mimic your desired design into your workplace or during your daily routine to see how it measures up. You might be surprised at how practical or impractical it actually is.

4. The Right Fit- A massive bauble of a ring on dainty little fingers can look a bit overwhelming and not properly proportioned. On the contrary, a very thin band and delicate ring on a thicker hand can appear to be lost whereas a larger setting can help create a more slender looking finger. When it comes to the diamond itself, obviously this can be a bit awkward as it depends on the man's overall budget, a larger rock equals a larger price point, but it doesn't have to be that way. By simply opting for a larger setting and thicker band for example, you can save on the cost of the most expensive portion which is the center stone itself. Even if a ring is being custom ordered online, you can always go into a jewelry store and try on various sizes and styles to see what your perfect fit is whether it's 1/2 a carat or 2 carats, a slim eternity style band. split shank or a simple solid wider plain metal band without any additional stones.

Diamonds aren't the only options, these days other transparent yet colored stones are gaining popularity such as Morganite. Speaking of ring size, you'll want to know what your wedding ring finger size is as it may differ from the ring size you normally buy for your right hand (mine is 1/2 a size smaller than my right ring finger). If your man doesn't know your ring size he can borrow one of your existing rings or guess but it may involve re-sizing the ring after the proposal and not all ring designs adapt well to re-sizing, especially if it's a jump in size from say a 7 to a 5 or vice versa. It may feel unromantic to have that conversation so you can always share those details with your best friend and hopefully he'll think to consult with her or you can leave your favorite well fitting rings out in plain view.

5. Center Stones Take Center Stage- There are so many beautiful options available from the classic and ever-popular round solitaire, to cushion cut, princess cut, oval, asscher cut, radiant, emerald and more. Remember that various cuts of stones reflect light differently. Beyond the carat size, clarity and overall color, it's the stone that will give you the sparkle and the shape has a big influence on how it shines. Classic round solitaires are known for being one of the most sparkly and light reflective compared with cushion cut or princess for example. I've found my princess cut catches the light in stores with overhead fluorescent lighting in a stunning way and in the sunlight it twinkles too whereas a friend who has a larger cushion cut diamond has mentioned that she doesn't experience the same sparkle in the sunshine, she does get an amazing fire by candlelight though.

When it comes to engagement ring styles, there are some that are just so classic and timeless, that you really can't go wrong if you've searched and searched and still find yourself confused and undecided. There are numerous ways to tweak a classic and traditional design to make it all your own. Below are some of my favorite classy, beautiful designs from the Anjolee website. My own custom engagement ring most closely resembles the princess cut with split shank in the bottom left hand corner along with the side view of pave diamonds and center stone setting of the upper right hand corner ring which has a modern yet antique feel.

If you're already engaged or married, what shape and style is included in your perfect ring?

Thanks for reading!


This post is brought to you by Anjolee-The Art of Jewelry All thoughts and opinions written are my own.

*image credits: (1) , (2), (3), (4), (5), (6), (7), (8)-all rings from Anjolee website.
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